Thank you. In the end my issue was not knowing how to right click on macbook, it's actually ctrl + click to get a "right click" that way it does work now!
Cant find how to retrieve items from the trash bin and neither how to exclude items from the audit and also not how to re-include them (I have excluded some in the past so atleast it did work for me at some point).. using the newest version on my macbook.